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Friend Makin’ Monday

Am I the only one who thinks that weekends go by very quickly?  It’s already time for FMM, and this week we are talking about Craig’s List. 

Today, Amber wants to know:

Do you use Craigslist? 
What have your experiences been? Good or bad? 
What was the best thing you’ve ever bought?
What was the best deal you ever sold?
I use Craigslist from time to time to sell my cell phone or laptop so I can “upgrade” to the latest thing.  I do it with handbags from time to time too, but Blackberries, laptops and iPods usually sell very quickly.  
I don’t Craigslist as much now as I did in the past (mostly because) I cannot be bothered.  I also had a particularly bad experience with it the week I moved to NY.  I had planned to meet someone in front of Barnes & Noble at their old location on 86th & Lexington on the Upper East Side.  This is an extremely safe neighborhood, and I made arrangements to walk down to meet him in the afternoon.  
The guy arrived in a very expensive car, wearing a nice suit.  And he seemed totally friendly which made me feel at ease so when he asked if he could check whether the internet was working or not, I said okay.  He walked toward his car, pretending he couldn’t find good signal, hopped in and took off.  I freaked out, stopped a policeman who was more aggravated that I was bothering him than he was that someone had just stolen my Macbook (which, by the way, was in perfect condition. I’m just saying.) 
Obviously, I would not have been fast enough to chase this guy because he was in a car while I was on foot.  And I wasn’t very quick on my feet anyway. My legs were so sore from walking up and down four flights (22 steps each) several times a day, and all of the walking around the city was still completely new to me at that time too.  
After that happened I stayed away from CL for a while, but when I was ready to sell my Blackberry I met a girl inside Gourmet Garage in Soho. We had spoken a couple times that day, and everything went according to plan.  
I still use Craigslist from time to time, but if I do I meet inside a restaurant where everyone knows me.  And I don’t go alone.  It’s too easy to get ripped off.  Don’t get me wrong…I do think it can be a good service.  It’s just rarely worth the risk for me anymore. 
In Amber’s post, she mentioned hearing about Craigslist in the news.  And there has definitely been some terrible stuff going on through that site, but that’s not really surprising to me.  No matter how good something is, there will always be people out there trying to ruin it for the rest of us.  
If I use Craigslist again, I will still be sure to meet in a very public place.  I will never give out my address or other personal information.  And I will not meet anyone alone, outside or after dark.  I do my best to be safe wherever I am, and I hope that will always be enough. 
If you want to join the FMM fun, check out Amber’s blog for the details.

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    September 21, 2009 at 4:57 pm

    Wow, it stinks that someone went so out of their way to rip you off! And…isn't it weird when it's the "rich" people doing the ripping off? Grrr

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    The Royal Family
    September 21, 2009 at 7:43 pm

    WOW I can't believe some people! 🙁

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    September 21, 2009 at 8:12 pm

    What a scary experience! Thanks for checking in on my blog!

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    September 21, 2009 at 8:22 pm

    I can't believe that guy just took your laptop… the nerve…thanks for stopping by…I also wanted to make sure that you got my e-mail with the book exchange info for the girl that sent it to me.

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    September 21, 2009 at 8:38 pm

    How freaky!! No wonder you dont do it much any more!

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    ♥Amber Filkins♥
    September 21, 2009 at 9:41 pm

    No freakin way. I hope that weighs on his conscience FOREVER. That is so awful.

    I'm glad you've had better experiences since then. It is very, very sad that some people have no regard for others but only think of themselves. And take things one step further to try and rip people off.

    I'm set on orange for my homeland security at all times. 🙂

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    September 21, 2009 at 10:42 pm

    How lame about your macbook!!! That isn't cool at all! Thanks for sharing, Happy FMM!

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    September 22, 2009 at 12:05 am

    WOW… what a creep!!! I'm glad you weren't hurt or anything! There are some rotten people on there… or so I've heard… I haven't used it before. I haven't been on in a while… but I LOVE your new background!!! 🙂

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    Mommy of Two
    September 22, 2009 at 2:00 am

    That's crazy, people always have to ruin things, don't they?

    BTW, I love your layout on your page, it's really cute!

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    September 22, 2009 at 4:09 am

    Wow!..I'm so sorry to hear someone would do that to you…and YES the weekends go by WAY to fast!!

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