I’m sitting in my home office while my husband prepares breakfast, and it seems so crazy and awesome that we’re approaching our first anniversary so quickly. June 3rd will mark a year that we’ve been married, and while it’s been a year filled with change, it’s also been one of the best years of my life so far. June 3rd is also the date of my 20th high school reunion, and while we ultimately decided to take a vacation elsewhere, we did consider heading up to Oklahoma to see family and old friends.
I enjoyed high school, but the years after it proved to be the darkest, most difficult of my life for reasons that I’ll probably never talk about on the internet. My senior year of high school was hard, though I do have fond memories of friends. I didn’t stay in close contact with many people from Oklahoma, but there are people from middle school and junior high who are still important to me today. They knew me when my life was hardest, and they still choose to love me today. I see those people when I visit Oklahoma, and I don’t anticipate that changing…ever.
Michael and I considered going to my reunion, and he said that it was my choice. He’d go if I wanted to go, and I think I would have said yes if it had been a different weekend. I declined, telling my old classmates that we’d be celebrating our anniversary instead, and I was surprised to learn that some of them would be celebrating their 20th anniversary on the same weekend! What?! Wow!
When did I get so old??? Congrats to them! We’ll be on a road trip in one of the coolest cities in the U.S. instead, but being connected with so many people from my past makes me wonder how their lives are today. It also makes me feel so thankful that I love the life I’m living today.
After high school, my life took a turn that led to a downward spiral of sadness and isolation that I now know was not my fault. I felt hopeless for far too long, but Jesus changed all of that and healed me. Since high school, I’ve lived in Oklahoma City, New York City, Los Angeles, and New Orleans. In some ways, living in Oklahoma seems like a lifetime ago, and I suppose it was. I’ve been out of Oklahoma for about half of my lifetime now, and as much as I enjoy visiting Oklahoma, it’s not at the top of my priority list right now. I prefer to spend time this summer visiting family in Colorado and making new memories with my husband and amazing friends and family.
Do you keep in touch with friends from high school? Do you make an effort to attend high school reunions?